There are several states in which two people get along, just like the state of life. If you talk about everything, the topic will cause conflicts and troubles between the two parties. If you communicate carefully and selectively every day, you will be tired. If you choose to remain silent as much as possible, it will be boring.
Isn’t life also a cycle of switching between worries, tiredness and boredom? After all, most people can't escape the fate of crawling out of troubles, and then being dragged in, crawled out, and dragged in again by troubles. I jumped out of the mainstream life, but I still can't escape from this cyclical curse.
相处的三种状态
When people get along with each other, they always seem to be wandering in three states: frankness in talking about everything, cautious caution, and alienation in choosing silence. Every state has its price and its inevitability.
Talking about everything seems beautiful, but it hides the seeds of conflicts; being cautious is safe, but makes people feel tired; choosing silence is worry-free, but it makes the relationship boring.
人生的循环魔咒
Isn’t this dilemma of getting along a reflection of life? We always cycle between worry, fatigue and boredom, as if bound by some invisible spell.
Even if you break out of the so-called mainstream life track, this cycle still exists. Perhaps this is the nature of human nature, a fate we cannot completely escape. The important thing is to find your own balance in this cycle.
寻找平衡
Since it is impossible to completely escape from this curse, then learning to switch between it with ease may be a kind of wisdom. Accept that this cycle exists while trying to find some beauty and meaning in each state.